No ?

please don't split one thought into ten separate messages

Imagine getting twelve notifications in a row, only to discover it was a single sentence chopped into tiny pieces... πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ

❌ Don't do this

T.J Miller chat avatar
T.J Miller 3:00 PM
hey
T.J Miller chat avatar
T.J Miller 3:00 PM
so
T.J Miller chat avatar
T.J Miller 3:01 PM
I was thinking
T.J Miller chat avatar
T.J Miller 3:01 PM
about the deploy
T.J Miller chat avatar
T.J Miller 3:02 PM
can we push it to tomorrow?
Thomas Middleditch chat avatar
Thomas Middleditch 3:22 PM
you could have said all that in one message

T.J Miller thought he was being conversational: short messages, casual vibe. But splitting one thought into six messages creates a wall of notifications that interrupts everyone in the channel.

Most people who do this don't mean to spam. It's a reflex: "I'll just type as I think."

But in text conversations, each message triggers a notification. Six messages means six interruptions, six pings, and the reader has to piece together the whole thought like a puzzle.

The same goes for:

  • hey / you there? / so / about that thing
  • one word per line
  • stream-of-consciousness typing
  • hitting Enter after every three words
  • sending half a thought, then finishing it five messages later

One thought, one message!

βœ… Instead, try this

T.J Miller chat avatar
T.J Miller 3:00 PM
hey! I was thinking about the deploy β€” can we push it to tomorrow? I want to run a few more tests first.
Thomas Middleditch chat avatar
Thomas Middleditch 3:01 PM
sure, tomorrow works. let me update the schedule.
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T.J Miller 3:02 PM
perfect, thanks!

Composing your full thought before hitting send takes a few extra seconds, but it gives the reader everything they need in one clean notification.

Instead of message-per-word, try:

  • Write the full idea, then hit send once
  • Use Shift+Enter for line breaks inside one message
  • If it's long, write it in a doc and share the link
  • Re-read before sending β€” can two messages become one?

Fewer pings, clearer thinking. Your teammates will read a complete thought instead of watching a sentence arrive one word at a time.

When done right, everyone stays focused. πŸŽ‰